In February of 2012, I decided to face a social fear of mine – dancing. I had taken some swing dance lessons during undergrad and ballroom lessons in grad school, but I simply could not understand how people were able to move to a rhythm, let alone look good doing it. I liked the idea of dancing, but honestly, was simply ashamed of my inability to hear the beat let alone move to it.
As a way to challenge myself to be a better person, I wanted to face my fear head on.
I was referred to Sapphire Ballroom and decided on a new-dancer package of four private lessons. I planned on doing these lessons, then maybe taking another at some point in the future – I had no intentions of continuing to dance. I figured I’d give it a shot, then when I failed (as I expected), I could say that at least I had tried.
The first time I walked through the door I was terrified. I had no idea what to expect, but Lane met me with a warm greeting and a smile. I told her that I had no idea what I was doing or how to hear the beat let alone count music. She had me counting music within 15 minutes!
After finishing up the four private lessons, I felt better, but still hesitant to attend any kind of group lesson (or even worse: the dreaded social dance). I eventually faced that fear, too. And now, a year and a half later, I look forward to my group classes, and I love going out to social dances! I’ve met several people, who are some of my best friends, through dance and I wouldn’t have had any other reason to talk to them before!
Great new friends, a fun hobby, and a social life – who could have thought that taking that first timid step into the doors of Sapphire Ballroom would have had such a profound impact on my life?
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